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Embracing the Positive Impact of Encouragement
In many cultures, words carry not only meaning but also profound energy. One such example is the Sanskrit blessing "Thathaastu," commonly given by elders to the younger generation. This word, often following an expression of hope or encouragement, means "May it come true." It is more than a simple wish; it is a transfer of positive energy, a heartfelt endorsement of the dreams and aspirations of others. This practice, rooted in tradition, holds valuable lessons for us all about the power of positive words and the impact they can have on our lives and the lives of others.
The Essence of Thathaastu
The Ripple Effect of Positive Energy
The idea that the positive energy we give out comes back around is a powerful one. Just as a pebble creates ripples when dropped into a pond, our words and actions can create waves of positivity that extend far beyond their initial impact. When we offer encouragement, support, or a simple word of praise, we are contributing to a culture of positivity and kindness. This can brighten someone's day, boost their confidence, and inspire them to pass on the positivity to others.Overcoming the Reluctance to Praise
Despite the profound impact that positive words can have, many people are surprisingly stingy with praise. There are various reasons for this—some may feel that offering praise diminishes their own achievements, while others may think, "Why bother?" However, this reluctance to acknowledge and celebrate others is both unproductive and shortsighted. Far from diminishing us, giving praise can enrich our lives by strengthening our relationships and fostering a more supportive and collaborative environment.The Simple Power of a Kind Word
Imagine the difference a small word of encouragement can make in someone's day. A colleague who is struggling with a project might feel reinvigorated by a simple "You're doing great—keep it up." A friend who is feeling down might find comfort in hearing "I believe in you." These small acts of kindness can have a profound impact, creating a sense of connection and mutual support that benefits everyone involved.Embracing Thathaastu in Our Lives
Incorporating the spirit of "Thathaastu" into our daily interactions can transform our relationships and our communities. By consciously choosing to offer positive words and blessings, we can create an environment where everyone feels valued and supported. Here are a few ways to embrace this practice:- Be Generous with Praise: Look for opportunities to acknowledge the efforts and achievements of others. Whether it's a colleague, a family member, or a friend, your words of praise can make a big difference.
- Offer Encouragement: When someone shares their goals or dreams with you, respond with enthusiasm and support. A simple "Thathaastu" or "May it come true" can be incredibly uplifting.
- Practice Active Listening: Show that you value others by truly listening to what they have to say. This not only helps you understand their perspective but also demonstrates that you care about their experiences and aspirations.
- Spread Positivity: Make a habit of sharing positive thoughts and blessings with those around you. The more you practice this, the more natural it will become, creating a ripple effect of positivity.
My Ted X talk titled "Pebbles in the Pond of Change
Hari Srinivasan, shares a powerful message about the power of small actions in creating ever-widening ripples in the pond of change. Drawing from personal experiences and the legacy of disability rights leaders, he redefines progress as a journey that starts with simple, accessible steps. His inspiring message encourages everyone to identify and act on their own "small pebbles" to drive societal transformation.
All humans live in a cycle of dependency
This incredible TIME piece by Hari Srinivasan beautifully articulates so many of the complicated feelings I have about my son’s journey to independence.
“Addressing the loneliness epidemic in the disabled community necessitates a nuanced understanding of independence because in actuality, all humans live in a cycle of dependency. The perceived division between independence and dependence is a flawed notion. Embracing this truth could pave the way for a more inclusive society that transcends the limitations of societal norms and helps us build better support systems that result in enduring human social connections for people with autism.”
Enhanced Perceptual Functioning
The Enhanced Perceptual Functioning (EPF) model suggests that autistic individuals often have heightened sensory abilities, allowing them to perceive finer details in their environment more acutely than neurotypical individuals. It reframes sensory sensitivities as strengths rather than deficits.
Emotion in AuDHD
Mention in the new journal article on AuDHD along with a nice thank you note.
Happy Holiday! I had the privilege of having you as a reviewer for my feature article in the Berkeley Scientific Journal titled "The Tug-of-War of Emotion in Children With AuDHD" last semester (Spring 2024).
I am delighted to share that the journal has now published the article, and this achievement would not have been possible without your invaluable guidance and feedback. I deeply appreciate your support throughout this process.
The publication details are as follows:
Chang, G. (2024). The Tug-of-War of Emotion in Children With AuDHD. Berkeley Scientific Journal, 28(2), 30–36. https://doi.org/10.5070/
Wishing you a Merry Christmas and a wonderful holiday season!
Thank you once again for your encouragement and thoughtful input.
With gratitude and holiday cheer,
Gardenia