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Embracing the Positive Impact of Encouragement

In many cultures, words carry not only meaning but also profound energy. One such example is the Sanskrit blessing "Thathaastu," commonly given by elders to the younger generation. This word, often following an expression of hope or encouragement, means "May it come true." It is more than a simple wish; it is a transfer of positive energy, a heartfelt endorsement of the dreams and aspirations of others. This practice, rooted in tradition, holds valuable lessons for us all about the power of positive words and the impact they can have on our lives and the lives of others.


The Essence of Thathaastu

"Thathaastu" embodies a deep sense of goodwill and the belief that positive words can influence outcomes. When an elder bestows this blessing, they are not just wishing for something good to happen; they are actively participating in the creation of a positive reality. This practice reminds us that our words carry weight and that the energy we put into the world can shape the experiences of those around us.

The Ripple Effect of Positive Energy

The idea that the positive energy we give out comes back around is a powerful one. Just as a pebble creates ripples when dropped into a pond, our words and actions can create waves of positivity that extend far beyond their initial impact. When we offer encouragement, support, or a simple word of praise, we are contributing to a culture of positivity and kindness. This can brighten someone's day, boost their confidence, and inspire them to pass on the positivity to others.

Overcoming the Reluctance to Praise

Despite the profound impact that positive words can have, many people are surprisingly stingy with praise. There are various reasons for this—some may feel that offering praise diminishes their own achievements, while others may think, "Why bother?" However, this reluctance to acknowledge and celebrate others is both unproductive and shortsighted. Far from diminishing us, giving praise can enrich our lives by strengthening our relationships and fostering a more supportive and collaborative environment.

The Simple Power of a Kind Word

Imagine the difference a small word of encouragement can make in someone's day. A colleague who is struggling with a project might feel reinvigorated by a simple "You're doing great—keep it up." A friend who is feeling down might find comfort in hearing "I believe in you." These small acts of kindness can have a profound impact, creating a sense of connection and mutual support that benefits everyone involved.

Embracing Thathaastu in Our Lives

Incorporating the spirit of "Thathaastu" into our daily interactions can transform our relationships and our communities. By consciously choosing to offer positive words and blessings, we can create an environment where everyone feels valued and supported. Here are a few ways to embrace this practice:

  • Be Generous with Praise: Look for opportunities to acknowledge the efforts and achievements of others. Whether it's a colleague, a family member, or a friend, your words of praise can make a big difference.
  • Offer Encouragement: When someone shares their goals or dreams with you, respond with enthusiasm and support. A simple "Thathaastu" or "May it come true" can be incredibly uplifting.
  • Practice Active Listening: Show that you value others by truly listening to what they have to say. This not only helps you understand their perspective but also demonstrates that you care about their experiences and aspirations.
  • Spread Positivity: Make a habit of sharing positive thoughts and blessings with those around you. The more you practice this, the more natural it will become, creating a ripple effect of positivity.
The blessing of "Thathaastu" is a beautiful reminder of the power of positive words and the impact they can have on our lives and the lives of others. By embracing this practice and being generous with our praise and encouragement, we can create a more supportive and uplifting environment. Remember, a small word from you can make a big difference in someone's day. So, let's take every opportunity to spread positivity and light, knowing that the energy we give out will come back around, enriching our lives and the lives of those we touch.

Embracing Kuleana - Our Collective Responsibility Towards Autism

Embracing Kuleana -  Our Collective Responsibility Towards Autism

(Jun 21, 2024 is Native Indigenous People's day)

In the Hawaiian language, the word "kuleana" embodies a profound concept, combining responsibility and privilege. "Kuleana finds you if you are open to it." (1). This notion can be extended to our approach toward autism, It is our kuleana—our responsibility and privilege—to ensure that the needs of all autistic individuals are met with empathy and understanding, including the needs of the most marginalized autistics.

This sense of kuleana aligns with the wisdom of the late legendary disability rights activist Judy Heumann, who reminded us that "disability only becomes a tragedy when society fails to provide the things needed to lead one's daily life.

Society has a crucial role in dismantling barriers and fostering a world where all individuals, regardless of their abilities, can live fulfilling lives. It means advocating for accessible education, healthcare and medical solutions, housing, care services, employment opportunities, and social inclusion. Embracing our kuleana towards the autism community is about more than just providing resources; it's about fostering an approach that looks at both strengths-based opportunities and challenges-based solutions.

By being open to kuleana, we create a more inclusive world.

- Hari S

(1) Aulani Wilhelm is the Chief Strategy and External Affairs Officer at Nia Tero, an organization dedicated to working in solidarity with Indigenous Peoples. The quote is taken from a May 30, 2024 webinar. Celebrating Conservation, Ocean Justice, and Climate Leadership in the Asian American, Native Hawaiian, and Pacific Islander Community.