Dominant Discourses


Terrific piece, Hari!  I really appreciated reading it, and I hope there will be more conversations about dominant discourses about "independence" an entirely Western construction, which should be problematized at so many levels.


My other articles in Time: https://time.com/author/hari-srinivasan/

https://www.dailycal.org/2018/04/12/compulsion-complexity


 

Embracing the Positive Impact of Encouragement

In many cultures, words carry not only meaning but also profound energy. One such example is the Sanskrit blessing "Thathaastu," commonly given by elders to the younger generation. This word, often following an expression of hope or encouragement, means "May it come true." It is more than a simple wish; it is a transfer of positive energy, a heartfelt endorsement of the dreams and aspirations of others. This practice, rooted in tradition, holds valuable lessons for us all about the power of positive words and the impact they can have on our lives and the lives of others.


The Essence of Thathaastu

"Thathaastu" embodies a deep sense of goodwill and the belief that positive words can influence outcomes. When an elder bestows this blessing, they are not just wishing for something good to happen; they are actively participating in the creation of a positive reality. This practice reminds us that our words carry weight and that the energy we put into the world can shape the experiences of those around us.

The Ripple Effect of Positive Energy

The idea that the positive energy we give out comes back around is a powerful one. Just as a pebble creates ripples when dropped into a pond, our words and actions can create waves of positivity that extend far beyond their initial impact. When we offer encouragement, support, or a simple word of praise, we are contributing to a culture of positivity and kindness. This can brighten someone's day, boost their confidence, and inspire them to pass on the positivity to others.

Overcoming the Reluctance to Praise

Despite the profound impact that positive words can have, many people are surprisingly stingy with praise. There are various reasons for this—some may feel that offering praise diminishes their own achievements, while others may think, "Why bother?" However, this reluctance to acknowledge and celebrate others is both unproductive and shortsighted. Far from diminishing us, giving praise can enrich our lives by strengthening our relationships and fostering a more supportive and collaborative environment.

The Simple Power of a Kind Word

Imagine the difference a small word of encouragement can make in someone's day. A colleague who is struggling with a project might feel reinvigorated by a simple "You're doing great—keep it up." A friend who is feeling down might find comfort in hearing "I believe in you." These small acts of kindness can have a profound impact, creating a sense of connection and mutual support that benefits everyone involved.

Embracing Thathaastu in Our Lives

Incorporating the spirit of "Thathaastu" into our daily interactions can transform our relationships and our communities. By consciously choosing to offer positive words and blessings, we can create an environment where everyone feels valued and supported. Here are a few ways to embrace this practice:

  • Be Generous with Praise: Look for opportunities to acknowledge the efforts and achievements of others. Whether it's a colleague, a family member, or a friend, your words of praise can make a big difference.
  • Offer Encouragement: When someone shares their goals or dreams with you, respond with enthusiasm and support. A simple "Thathaastu" or "May it come true" can be incredibly uplifting.
  • Practice Active Listening: Show that you value others by truly listening to what they have to say. This not only helps you understand their perspective but also demonstrates that you care about their experiences and aspirations.
  • Spread Positivity: Make a habit of sharing positive thoughts and blessings with those around you. The more you practice this, the more natural it will become, creating a ripple effect of positivity.
The blessing of "Thathaastu" is a beautiful reminder of the power of positive words and the impact they can have on our lives and the lives of others. By embracing this practice and being generous with our praise and encouragement, we can create a more supportive and uplifting environment. Remember, a small word from you can make a big difference in someone's day. So, let's take every opportunity to spread positivity and light, knowing that the energy we give out will come back around, enriching our lives and the lives of those we touch.

 My Ted X talk titled "Pebbles in the Pond of Change

Hari Srinivasan, shares a powerful message about the power of small actions in creating ever-widening ripples in the pond of change. Drawing from personal experiences and the legacy of disability rights leaders, he redefines progress as a journey that starts with simple, accessible steps. His inspiring message encourages everyone to identify and act on their own "small pebbles" to drive societal transformation.

 


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